Parenting Coordinator

A Parenting Coordinator (PC) is someone who helps parties in high conflict custody cases resolve conflicts and may decide certain issues between the parties pending court review.  The Parenting Coordinator is someone who holds a masters or doctorate degree in psychology, law, social work or counseling; has at least five years of related professional post-degree experience; holds an NC license in the parenting coordinator’s field of expertise; and has participated in the required training.   Attorney Janelle Brienzi at Pennington Brienzi Law is a Parenting Coordinator and offers this service for those who have a court order appointing a PC. 

The Court may appoint a parenting coordinator on their own initiative; the parties can consent to have a Parenting Coordinator appointed; or one party can file a motion to ask the court to order an appointment if the other party does not consent.  The court must find that the appointment would be in the best interest of the child and that the parties have the ability to pay for the PC’s services. 

Once the Parenting Coordinator is appointed, an order is entered that lists the areas of conflict that the PC is able to make decisions for the parties if there is a conflict.  The PC can make small decisions related to the parties but cannot substantially change a court order.  This is helpful for very high conflict parents who are in and out of court on a regular basis and gives them a third party to help them communicate and guide them through the co-parenting process.

The PC’s decisions are legally binding in the same way the court order is binding.  The parties have the ability to bring the PC’s decisions before the Judge for a review, but the decisions (also known as directives) are valid and enforceable in the same way the court order is. 

The appointment can last usually from 1-2 years, and can be renewed upon consent of the parties or by court order.  The PC appointment can also be modified or terminated by court order in some circumstances.